to face discussions are very much important. Sometimes without even speaking with each other we jump to conclusions about that person. This is what I encountered with a Lady in my office. For the first time we smiled at each each other. But right from our second meet, we had only stared. I do not understand what has kept us apart and still I don't understand why we do not talk.  Sometimes I feel is it loved that has sprang between us or is it just an ego on "who will speak first" has kept our conversations void. I believe face to face interaction will help both of us to come out of this problem.  It always happens that we meet each other in our office cafeteria and conference meetings. Even there we both don't smile and simply walk away. Is it the trouble in me or her? I'm unable to come to a conclusion and this instance has been hindering my mind since a long time. I definitely need the help of a counselor to sort out this problem within us. I even tried discovering the answer in some psychology books but I found no answers to this. I hope it is just a problem in us that has to be sorted out at the earliest.